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About the Author
In her third book, Honor Thy Father and
Thy Mother, beloved children's poet Diane Stelling of West
Milford, New Jersey, boldly travels down a new path with her autobiographical
narrative. Departing from the whimsical style of her first two
books, The Giant and the Mouse and One Little Voice,
Diane brings a serious message of hope to abuse victims—that
although they may feel broken and disconnected, they, too, can
become whole again and life in peace.
As an adult survivor of childhood physical/verbal abuse and adult
sexual abuse, Diane Stelling struggled with her faith, Christianity,
and the Bible for many years. In her book and in her workshops,
she would like to share what she learned from her experiences
(i.e., what works and what does not) in an effort to help others
minister spiritually to abuse victims more effectively.
Praise from Counselors...
"Powerful, thought provoking, and inspiring! This book
provides a way for abuse survivors to better recognize the healing
gifts God has given through His Word. This book is a must-read
for survivors of abuse as well as anyone working with these victims.
As a clinician, I found the scripture references and personable
writing style particularly helpful in guiding my clients through
the healing process...."
—Barbara Porcelli, LCSW, Christian Psychotherapist, Wyckoff,
NJ
"This account of Diane's journey provides wonderful
insight into the process of healing, from the perspective of the
victim. It has already proven to be a useful tool to those working
with people who are struggling with issues related to a painful
past. In addition, it is written for the pastors, therapists,
and others who often have little or no training or experience
understanding the perspective and possible God confusion revealed
by some of those who have suffered at the hands of others."
—Dr. Marlene Magdar, Psy. D., Lake Pleasant, NY
...and from Clergy
"This book is not a doctrinal treatise. It is a powerful
and moving story about life and faith. It begins with struggle
and despair and ends in victory, hope, and life in Christ—a
true demonstration of God's love, provision, and grace.
Diane's story made me more aware of the depths of the hidden
hurts that so many abused people have stored up inside themselves
and what I as a pastor can do to help them. This book will be
an invaluable resource for me when counseling others in abusive
situations."
—Reverend Andrew D. Nelson, Bethlehem Lutheran Church, Ridgewood,
NJ
"I have used Diane's story to help unlock doors for
inner city people with emotional and/or mental problems to identify
what is going on in their lives. Diane's journey reveals
the best path to healing for those who are truly seeking it. Honor
Thy Father and Thy Mother is a tool that can be used very effectively
in helping troubled individuals sort out their emotions."
—Reverend Paul E. Schlett, Hamilton Hill Fellowship (Baptist)
Schenectady, NY
Adult Programs
Diane Stelling is available to present her
program to a wide variety of adult groups, including
• Counselors
• Pastors
• Conferences/Conventions
• Church groups
• Support groups
• Parenting groups
• Community groups
Objectives that program participants will
learn are:
• The mind-set of the victim of long-term
abuse.
• Understanding victim’s confusion regarding original
and actual sin
• Forgiveness as it relates to abuse and the environment
in the church
• The need for care givers to focus on the innocence of
the victim
• Using specific Scripture passages/stories from the Bible
to better equip victims
• How to create a healing environment within the church
For more information about Diane Stelling and this book, please visit her web site at www.abusehelpspiritual.com. She has also authored www.dianestellingpoetry.com.
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